By Jenni Holdsworth Jun 19, The position we typically picture when we imagine sexy uses for handcuffs or restraints; using one cuff on each wrist, the cuffs are used to tie both hands together. They can be threaded through the headboard if you have the right kind of bed or something else, like the banisters of a staircase, with the restrained partner lying on their back or stomach. When using adjustable ties, cinching them tight keeps your partner leaning forward yet unable to support their weight with their arms. If you leave the length between cuffs a bit looser, the partner on top can hold on it as though they were reins for a truly wild ride. If you or your partner want to be completely at the mercy of the other, this can be achieved by adding another pair of restraints to the ankles, similarly looped through a bedpost.
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Handcuffs are all about playing with power—whether you're learning to let go or the one in charge—and depend on a deep sense of trust between you and your partner. They also just look badass. Here's how to cuff or be cuffed, whichever you're into! A classic wrists-cuffed-to-the-bedpost is perfect for teasing the hell out of your partner with edge play—get them to the brink of orgasm, stop, repeat 'til you hear begging. But if you're living the futon life, chair or couch legs work, too. Slap a pair of cuffs around a towel rack and let the games begin. They can tease you with kisses up your inner thigh, spank you or just go in for a quickie. Up to them: you're not going anywhere. If you have two sets of cuffs or some extra belts or scarves , sit your partner on a chair and bind their ankles and wrists. First, a little strip tease.