Anal isn't for everyone. No matter how keen you are or how hard you coax, your wife may never be into it. So don't set your sights too high.
1. I'm pretty sure the butt wasn't made to be penetrated. Is anal sex bad for you?
2. There are official anal sex rules?
What do you actually know about anal sex? Think women hate taking it through the back door? Many women are crazy about it! And when you know how to do it right, it can even become as addictive as traditional sex. Trust, therefore, takes front stage. Here are some tips to master the act of anal sex, and get your partner to want it as much as you do! Anal sex can be painful for a woman, especially the first time. The skin around the anus is particularly thin, and can crack easily. Vaseline or any other synthetic lubricant is essential you can find very good lubricating oils online or in pharmacies.
I felt so bad for the women in the previous article , having anal sex when it obviously wasn't something they liked. We're in charge of our sexuality, and we ought to own it. I love anal and hate receiving oral , so I'm really weird, but so what? I have someone who appreciates me for me. I first tried it 15 years ago, with my husband. I'd had fantasies about it before and was more into doing it — I expected to like it as much as I ultimately do.
Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger. Go slow. You have to remember that. Use your hands or a sex toy to play with them, so that she has the opportunity to get off, too. Foreplay still matters.